I am a LOVE & RELATIONSHIP COACH who specializes in helping women leave toxic, addictive relationships with men once and for all. The clients I serve are women who are caught in devastatingly disempowering and addictive cycles with narcissists, addicts, or alcoholics. I will help you heal your codependent, love addicted ways and help you get the REAL LOVE that you have always dreamed of but have never allowed yourself.
From a very early young age I was fascinated by observing humans in a relational context. Why did some people seem to exude love and contentment while others were embroiled in constant conflict? My upbringing provided me with a perfect breeding ground to explore the mysteries of my pondering. There was no shortage of chronic physical and verbal discord, addiction, infidelity, and mental illness within my family of origin. My parents lived according to the textbook roles of "addict" and "codependent". My first relationships in life did not disappoint in following my Mom's codependent footsteps. Relentless about breaking the patterns of my lineage, I tirelessly explored love addiction, codependency, trauma bonding, narcissist/empath bonding, and so on. It never fails to amaze me how SO many of the relationships I see fall into these categories. I have studied at Bard College, Naropa University, and The Relationship School and have a variety of certifications and credentials in the form of psychology, relationship coaching, mindfulness, and yoga. The culmination of my life experience and formal education has led me to the destination of being a Love & Relationship Coach.
Basically, I offer TOXIC RELATIONSHIP REHAB. First, you get really honest with yourself and ME, and decide if you are ready to LEAVE HIM. We explore your fears and hesitations in depth. We also design tools to counteract the utterly hellish withdrawal that inevitably arises once you try and detach from your toxic relationship. I am not going to pretend this is an even remotely easy process. It is no joke, and it very much resembles a chemical dependency. We also design a logical and systematic action plan if you are needing to find a new home, new career, or other forms of tangible survival alternatives that replace what you are currently in. I also offer accountability in the form of email and text support. I will have your back every step of the way. Lastly, we create your ideal relationship vision when and if you are ready to get back out in the dating world again. I will help you design an entirely new RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT that is based on mutual love, boundaries, and effectively speaking up for your needs. Enabling and allowing abusive and crappy relationships will be a figment of the past and you will finally have the beautiful and collaborative relationship that you have always dreamed of!